It's not an order; it's a demand, and you couldn't care less whether your partner sees the difference. What's important to you is how they respond, and how you'll come to handle this crisis in your relationship. You don't want to forgive them, even though you know it's the only way through this.
You're not the type to lump people into types, but you're wise enough to want to avoid a cold shower. You're not taking a rain check on your romantic hopes and dreams, but you will take the time to lay out your emotional expectations to this person.
Play various games. The loser will be given a sexy dare! Or write down your fantasies on pieces of paper and place them into a hat. Pick one at random and... You know the rest!
Your availability is a plus for you at your job. Your superiors will take note, and you'll be asked whether you'd like to put in some extra hours here and there - paid overtime, of course.
You'll jump at the chance to make some extra cash; you need it. You can see the light at the end of this financial tunnel, and you can finally let yourself think about your next vacation.
You'll find out who your true friends are when you tell them about your problems. Some will disappoint you, but others will surprise you in a good way.
Your desire to talk about subjects other than family drama will bother this relative. They won't understand why you're not motivated to listen to them.
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Given your emotional state, you won't be very surprised by the stomachaches. Unfortunately you don't have any miracle cures.
Smoother than kaki, asparagus green is slowly but surely taking over your wardrobe.