As you move through Cancer, the Sun is in a sign that is square to yours and opposes the Midheaven. A loss of energy is to be feared.
You would like your couple to evolve in a harmonious way and avoid falling back into the sometimes stormy situations you have already experienced. An objective analysis of the situation and good advice can only come from people who are not involved in the relationship. Turn to a professional.
No mystery, the parental couple has conditioned your vision, you are aware of it and you wish to free yourself from all reproduction. It is not a question of judging, but of understanding. So many other models present themselves to your eyes, learn from them whether it is in the happy part or the missing part.
Couple, question your motivations sincerely. Is it to receive the approval of your loved ones that you impose all these changes on yourself? Single, if you set the bar very high in love, make sure that you are also capable of reaching it... Your ambition is beyond you.
Your father-in-law makes a thinly disguised appeal for you to work with him in his business. You literally run away! You are convinced that working together as a family would be a source of unending discord.
You can't stand your spouse taking care of your account. That's why you didn't want to open a joint account. Your account is like an inner sanctum, you do not appreciate any intrusion into it.
The lack of motivation persists and worries you a little. A visit to the doctor will confirm that everything is fine, that it is only a passage.
Nothing irritates you more in the family than this feeling of having to maintain your place as a child as if you were not allowed to be an adult.